May 1, 2019

Message of the Month

Are You A VIP (Very Involved Parent)?

1. Keep them on a regular schedule. ALWAYS ARRIVE ON TIME TO ASSIGNED CLASSES (e.g., if class is at 4:15 does not mean arrive at 4:15) always be early/ and make up missed classes.

2. Encourage your child to learn and follow our school protocol and practice their martial arts manners.

3. Observe your child’s classes as often as possible and REMEMBER WHILE CLASS IS IN SESSION MAINTAIN QUIETNESS AROUND THE CLASS ITSELF, ESPECIALLY IF SMALL SIBLINGS ARE PRESENT; AND ALWAYS PRAISE EVEN THE SLIGHTEST PROGRESS.

4. Understand that any and all progress helps to keep their interest level high.

5. Always support our Instructor’s decision regarding stripes and belt promotions, they will always be acting in your child’s best interest.

6. Be optimistic and encouraging even if your child shows temporary signs of frustration or boredom.

7. Keep frequent communications with our instructors over your child’s progress in and out of the martial arts school.

8. Attend special events such as our monthly exam demonstrations, Open House Leadership Days and our Intramural Tournaments. These events are extremely motivational for everyone. (Bring your cameras and or video cameras).

9. Take time to learn the Student Creed along with your child and help them better understand our weekly messages.

10. Be a “VIP” or what we call a Very Involved Parent!!! Help others to be VIP also.

A Salute To Memorial Day

Memorial Day was originally called Decoration Day. It is a day of remembrance for those who have died in the service of our nation.

You need not ever know my name. This unknown soldier seeks no fame.

I’m here to bring out thought from you. May your heart see more than your view.

America, we marched with pride. We gave our life, for you we died.

How well we know the time might come. When life could sound that final drum.

Please think of us as life moves on. We tried so hard till that last dawn.

Do let our spirit fill the land. Pass treasured freedom, hand to hand.

God bless this country with such love. Hold in your heart, abundance of.

And when you stand before my grave. Think not of one, but each who gave.

Kids Corner

Six Confidence-Building Strategies

1. Every day remind yourself that you did some things well. Instead of dwelling on what didn’t work or the tasks you didn’t finish, focus on what you did accomplish.
2. Read inspiring biographies and autobiographies. We want to reinforce this one more time. Read books, articles and magazines. Build a file of those stories that inspire you most. Record special TV documentaries. Listen to tapes or watch videos. Go to the movies — there are some great stories out there. Your confidence grows when you actively take on the challenges of life. You won’t win them all, but with the right attitude you will win more than enough.
3. Be thankful. No matter how bad your circumstances may be, there’s probably someone worse off than you. Most of your problems will pale in comparison when you take a mental snapshot of all the benefits you enjoy everyday.
4. Build excellent relationships.
5. Push yourself to accomplish short-term goals. There’s no great way to build confidence than getting things done. Create an environment of accomplishment every week. Focus on your three most important targets. Every day do something that moves you closer to finishing a project, closing a sale or expanding a relationship. Don’t allow yourself to be distracted or interrupted. By doing so you will eliminate the feelings of guilt and failure. Take one small step at a time. Make sure your goals are realistic.
6. Do something for yourself every week. Find a way to celebrate your weekly accomplishments.